C'mon People!!!!!

[jeffduke]

Originally Posted by George

Just seemed to me you was trying to compare this place to az when they been around for years. No its not just my hobby. I take all your suggestions and almost always use them. There isn't one suggestion from the users that I haven't add or added to my list to do when I get a chance. Once again I was joking with jeff shame he didn't take it that way.

a joke? you got a VERY bad way of joking around George! joke or not, you can't blame ME for this site getting NO popularity....whatever the problem is, it ISN'T MY FAULT!! its not a shame that I took it how I did, its how YOU worded it! maybe if you'd have made it look like a joke in your post, I might have taken it that way...but you failed to do so, so I took it as being something serious...can ANYONE out there blame me for doing this? I don't think so

[George]

Originally Posted by jeffduke

a joke? you got a VERY bad way of joking around George! joke or not, you can't blame ME for this site getting NO popularity....whatever the problem is, it ISN'T MY FAULT!! its not a shame that I took it how I did, its how YOU worded it! maybe if you'd have made it look like a joke in your post, I might have taken it that way...but you failed to do so, so I took it as being something serious...can ANYONE out there blame me for doing this? I don't think so

I never blamed you for anything. Jeff you know me you talked to me several times you should of known it was a joke.

[A-Train]

I'd like to see more action around here as well.

I try to make it interesting if nothing else, but I get in trouble sometimes too. LOL

[kurtain]

The one thing I do not like in these forums is that people take things too serious. Maybe it is just me but when I have something negative to say about someone I do so 1 on 1, not posting in a forum. So therefore everything that gets posted here I do see as joking. I have been a part of other sites that blast people and I do not like that, so I left. When I first came here one of the first post I saw was about the forum rules for BCA, TAP, and APA. In these rules they all say the same thing, “Any problems with moderators should be settled privately, through PM or e-mail, not publicly on the board.” That tells me no bashing with occur with the forums. To this day I have not seem anyone get out of line, maybe a few close calls , but not out of line. I treat this place as a home away from home where I can come relax and enjoy everyone’s conversation. SO therefore I want to do what I can to make it a better place and meet new people. I am not looking to offend anyone with this post although I am sure I will. With that said…George, what can I do to help??

[BHQ]

Originally Posted by jeffduke

a joke? you got a VERY bad way of joking around George! joke or not, you can't blame ME for this site getting NO popularity....whatever the problem is, it ISN'T MY FAULT!! its not a shame that I took it how I did, its how YOU worded it! maybe if you'd have made it look like a joke in your post, I might have taken it that way...but you failed to do so, so I took it as being something serious...can ANYONE out there blame me for doing this? I don't think so

this is one of the biggest problems with forums.
the "written word" is not taken into the same context as the "spoken word" . it's too easy to misconstrue ( spell check ) someones meaning, thoughts, intentions, etc.
i personally try to give people the benefit of the doubt , that they are jokers, class clowns as i am.
lifes too short to make enemies.
i learned that as i got older. everyone does eventually.
i've been told that i talk to total strangers as if i've known them all my life.
it doesn't take long to figure out if someone is REALLY giving me SHI* or vice versa.
i hope this forum continues & grows WITH jeff, the other purpleheart freak, participating

[jeffduke]

Thanks for the comments guys! I guess I'm not the only one who didn't see it as a joke! I appreciate you guys "having my back" on this issue

[BHQ]

Originally Posted by jeffduke

Thanks for the comments guys! I guess I'm not the only one who didn't see it as a joke! I appreciate you guys "having my back" on this issue

not BROKEBACK, ok
saw that the other nite!!!
omg, i thought it was going to be a western cowboy & indian movie
boy oh boy, was i ever wrong